©️陶理 Hermione Ben A’an in Callander
陶理是我研究生期间经同学介绍认识的“网友”。从认识以来，我们在专业成长和生活上一直保持着良好的交流。在我印象中，她是一个激情、理性，思想和行动都活跃的人。今天发起的游戏，正反映她这些特质。如果你也想让自己的生活多一些趣味、挑战、深层的思考，不妨挑选几个尝试下吧！For my upcoming 30th birthday, I develop this game which combines questions I am genuinely curious and a few challenges I would like my friends, readers and whoever is interested in to try:为了我即将到来的30岁生日，我开发了这个游戏，里面我的好奇心和发起的挑战，欢迎我的朋友、读者和所有感兴趣的读者试试：1. If you are an Animagus, which animal would be your first choice to turn into? Why?Animagus refers to wizards or witch who can use their magic to turn into an animal they want to be.如果你是阿尼玛格斯，你觉得你的第一选择会是变成哪种动物？为什么？阿尼玛格斯在《哈利·波特》系列中，指可以随心所欲变成某一种动物的巫师。2. What was the last film/video you watched which you still don’t regret your time and would recommend to your friends who share similar interests?你最新看的让你至今不后悔花了时间、会推荐给你志趣相投的朋友的一部电影/视频是什么？3. What’s the frequent podcast/music you listen to and would like to share with me?4. If one of your used shoes becomes a Portkey, where would you like to be your destination?A Portkey was a magical object enchanted to instantly bring anyone touching it to a specific location. In most cases, a Portkey was an everyday object that would not draw the attention of a Muggle.如果你的一只旧鞋子变成了门钥匙，你会希望它带你去哪里？门钥匙是哈利波特系列里面瞬间将人传到目的地的交通工具。5. Think of a close friend you have. How come you two became closer to each other?6. If you accidentally take a Polyjuice potion and become me, what kind of life you would have? Anything different from your current life?The Polyjuice Potion was a potion that allowed the drinker to assume the form of someone else. Again, it’s from Harry Potter series.如果你偶然喝了变形药水，变成了我，你会过什么样的生活？会和你现在的生活有什么不同吗？变形药水会让喝的人变成另外一个人。没错，又是来自哈利波特系列。7.Conversation Challenge:Invite someone (either at least 7 years younger than you or at least 7 years older than you) to discuss two questions from the above 1-6 questions. You two can each choose one question and decide how much you would like to share with me about your answers.请找一个比你至少小7岁、或者大至少7岁的人，和ta讨论上面6个问题中的两个问题。你们可以各挑一个。你们商议过后告诉我一部分或者全部答案都可以。8.Share a book/text content (social media post, magazine, journal paper) that you finished reading in 2020 or 2021. In your opinion, it is worthy of my time to read.8.分享你在2020年或2021年读完的一本书/文字内容（比如社交媒体上的推送，杂志，期刊文章）觉得值得花时间也觉得适合我阅读。9. What is the best dish/food you had in the past few days? (who made it; do you know the recipe? Do you have a photo?)过去几天里你觉得最好吃的菜/食物是什么？（谁做的？你知道菜谱吗？你有照片吗？）10. In the culture you had your childhood, did you enjoy the primary school you experienced? Anything in particular you would like to change if you can get your voice heard?在你童年经历的文化中，你享受自己读小学的经历吗？要是你的声音可以被听见，你想要看见什么样的改变？©️陶理 Hermione Hampstead Heath in London11. In the culture you had your teenage years, did you enjoy the secondary school you experienced? Anything in particular you would like to change if you can get your voice heard?在你青少年阶段所处的文化中，你享受自己读中学的经历吗？要是你的声音可以被听见，你想要看见什么样的改变？12. In the culture you had your higher education, did you enjoy the university/universities you experienced? Anything in particular you would like to change if you can get your voice heard?在你接受高等教育的这个文化中，你享受自己大学时期的经历吗？要是你的声音可以被听见，你想要看见什么样的改变？13. How did you get yourself educated about (biological) sex and (social/cultural) gender?14. From 0 to 10, to what extent you are concerned about the climate challenge? （what have done?）你在何种程度上对气候挑战感到担忧？（你为此做了些什么？）15. From 0-100, where would rate your current health level? How far are you from your target if you have any? (What are you doing to reach it? What else do you think you can do?)从0-100分，你会给自己目前的健康状况打多少分？如果你有一个目标分数，你还差多少？（你在做些什么去实现它？你觉得自己还可以做些什么？）16. When was the last time you made a donation and what was it for? (Was it a regular one?)你上一次捐赠是什么时候？是为什么而捐？（是你的定期捐赠吗？）17. I have a question challenge: ask me a question (not from my list) you genuinely want to know from me or others who may see it. Remember: we all have our right to choose to answer it or not, the same as you.我有一个问题挑战：问一个你想知道的问题，可以是问我、也可以是问别的可能看到这个问题的人。记得我们都有选择回答与不回答的权利，你也是。18. Think of the culture(s) which you think have an huge impact on you, what influences you in a way that you are grateful? What maybe something you try to reduce or even remove?想想对你有巨大影响的文化，有什么影响是你觉得感恩的？有什么是你想要降低甚至想要去除的？19. Do you have any role model or someone (either real or fictional characters) you think highly of? What makes them stand out?你有敬佩的楷模或者觉得很棒的人或者人物吗？（真实或虚拟的都可以）为什么ta们脱颖而出？20. Panel challenge: invite two people around your age (but either in different race or different gender identity) to choose three questions above). Again, you three choose and decide to tell me the answers or not.邀请两个与你年龄相近（但种族或性别认同不一样的人）挑选上面问题中的三个聊聊。同样的，你们三个人商量决定分享给我多少你们的思考。©️陶理 Hermione Hammersmith Bridge in London21.Is there any specific food you would have for your birthday? Either a family tradition or a cultural tradition. Any story behind that?在你生日的时候有什么你会吃的特定食物吗？你家的传统还是文化传统都可以。在这背后有什么故事吗？22. How was your experience of learning geography? (Either in school, uni, self-taught, home school)你学习地理的体验如何？（学校、大学或自学、家庭教育都可以）23.If you do not need to worry about expense and care duty, what would you like to do for the rest of your life?如果你不用担心花销和照顾养家的责任，你会做什么来度过余生？24. The role of money in your life:1)When did you realise: oh I wish I had more money then this is not a problem. （of course you can say this is never my concern）你在什么时候意识到：要是我有更多钱，这就不是问题了。（当然你也可以说从未担心过钱）2)What event made you realise: it is not all about money. Money cannot do everything.有什么事情让你意识到：不全是钱的事。钱不是万能的。25.Is there anyone who you once thought highly of and then became disappointed at or distant to them? What happened?是否有这样一个你曾经评价很高但逐渐失望或疏远的人？发生了什么？26. If you do not have worry about the limit of space, time and possibilities, who (not have to be only one) would you like to have dinner with?如果不用考虑任何时空以及可能性的限制，你最想和谁（们）一起吃顿好的？27. Blindness challenge: First, find someone you trust and they trust you too. Second, close your eyes and let them be your guide, walk 30minutes. Then it is their turn to close their eyes and you guide them to walk 30 minutes. After trying this out, share your feelings with each other. Similarly, it is up to you two to decide how much you want to share with me.首先，找一个彼此信任的人。然后，闭上你的眼睛，让ta做你的向导，走上半小时的路。接着是角色互换，你做ta的向导，带ta走半小时。在两人都尝试完之后，聊聊彼此的感受。同样的，你们俩选择分享给我多少你们的感受。28.What are the frequent sources that you get yourself informed about the world outside your direct living experiences?在你直接的生活经验之外，你有哪些经常使用的获取信息的来源？29.What would be your choice if you are invited to be part of a weekly journal, what topic would like to see more in this journal or even write more for this journal?如果你是一份周刊的一部分，你会期待看到什么内容？或者为它写些什么内容？30. If you are over 30, how did you have your 30th birthday? If you are not yet 30, imagine how would you like to have your 30th birthday?如果你已经过了30岁，你是怎么庆祝你30岁生日的？如果你还没到30岁，想象一下你想要怎么过自己的30岁生日？
©️陶理 Hermione A bench facing the Thames River
