每日原则：如果你发现自己无法调和相互间的主要分歧--尤其是价值观层面的--要考虑是否值得维持这种关系...

这个世界上千人千面，很多人对事物有不同的看法和评价。如果你发现无法与某人就价值观方面达成一致，就应考虑是否还与此人来往。价值观不同，会导致很多痛苦的经历和不好的结局，最终还是会让你们疏离。一旦你发现此种情形，最好尽快分道扬镳。

There are all kinds of different people in the world, many of whom value different kinds of things. If you find you can’t get in sync with some-one on shared values, you should consider whether that person is worth keeping in your life. A lack of common values will lead to a lot of pain and other harmful consequences and may ultimately drive you apart. It might be better to head all that off as soon as you see it coming.