From getting married to divorced: love to leave behind
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From getting married to divorced: love to leave behind
结婚（相爱--放生）离婚
This August, the Rio Olympics has caught all people’s eyes at first. However, the divorce event of Wang Baoqiang and Ma Rong broke the situation. Up to now, the event is still being discussed and concerned heatedly. And on August 16, Johnny Depp and Amber Heard released a joint statement. As is known to all, their divorce battle has been lasting in a hubbub for several months!
这个八月，本来被里约奥运会霸屏！可是，突然王宝强和马蓉撕脸事件硬是打破这霸局！到目前为止，还保持相当高的热度以及关注度！而8月16日约翰尼·德普和娇妻艾梅柏·希尔德发表离婚共同协议，众所周知他们的这场离婚大战也是历时沸沸扬扬数月！
Maybe, some netizens don’t dare to believe in live any more. But, love is the relationship between the certain two persons. And, it doesn’t matter whether you believe it or not as you are not the leading actor.
估计又会有网友说，不再相信爱情！可是爱情是两个人的，你不在其中，有何相信与否！！
When getting married, the two are intimate lovers. While trying to split up, the two are strangers who turned against each other. As the wedding vows say--To have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part. Nowadays, the vows reappear seemingly in the ears while all have changed a lot. Why do they hurt each other in the end who used to love each other to death?
结婚的时候两个人郎情妾意，然而离婚的时候翻脸不认人！结婚誓词--从今往后，不论境遇好坏，家境贫富，生病与否，誓言相亲相爱，至死不分离。如今，誓言依稀在耳，却物是人非！曾经相爱,为何最后相害！
Some people compare marriage to three stages: the first is the sweet words stage, the second is the cynicism stage and the third is the uncommunicative stage. Why do people hurt each other as they spend more time together? Finally, the two hate each other who used to love deeply. As the opposite two parties, one hurts the other in return consecutively which is harmful to both parties. Especially, there are the family members, friends and even the children surrounding you besides yourselves. Do you mind how much you have hurt your beloved?!
有人说婚姻可以分为三部曲：第一部甜言蜜语，第二部冷言冷语，第三部不言不语。为什么两个人相处越来越久，最后会恶言相向并且变成仇人相见分外眼红！两个人你来我往，你撕我撕，伤己伤人！更何况，除了你们自己之外，还有家人和朋友，甚至有小孩子，有没有想想他们的心理阴影面积？！
Marriage is not a thing for one but for both two. As two separated and unfamiliar persons, a lot of factors may have influence on the process of living together from the individual such as living habits, behavior habits, living values, consuming values, family values and emotional foundation. Once, I heard a story that one couple got divorced because their squeezing habits (one pushed from the end while the other pushed from the top). On hearing the story, many people can’t help laughing probably. Life is just so tricky to handle!
婚姻不是一个人的事情，而是两个人的事情。两个人从陌生的个体迈向相互磨合的过程，其中影响的因素太多，例如生活习惯、行为习惯、生活观、消费观、家庭观、感情基础等，都可能影响结局的走向。曾听说一个故事一对夫妻因为牙膏从尾巴开始挤和从头部开始挤的习惯不同而离婚，可能大家听到这个不免大笑！人生就是那么微妙！
Actually, it is very simple and easy from getting married to splitting up. If the two fall in love with each other, they want to get married. On the contrary, they break a marriage as they don’t love each other any longer. Once being loved, you are the treasure in his/her eyes. While breaking up, you are not important anymore! However, what’s on earth the points? Even though you don’t love at present, you have your past wonderful memories. If you stay with me, I cherish you. If you leave, I bless you! As Wang Fei split up with Li Yapeng, they believed: it was their destiny that they broke up with each other this lifetime. I was OK and I blessed you!
其实，结婚到离婚，很简单！两个人相爱想在一起，就结婚了；两个人不爱不想在一起，就离婚了！相爱时视如掌中宝，不爱时视如敝履！可是，有什么必要！就算不爱，你们曾拥有过美好的曾经！你在，我珍惜；你走，我不强留！就如王菲与李亚鹏离婚时说：这一世，夫妻缘尽至此。我还好，你也保重！
Please love dearly if you love and let her/him go if you don’t love!
如果爱，请深爱；如果不爱，请放生！
知识点
hubbub 美 ['hʌ.bʌb] 英 ['hʌbʌb]
n. 喧闹声；嘈杂声；骚乱；混乱
loud confused noise from many sources
例句：
They arose a hubbub among them.
他们引起了一阵喧哗。
At lunch time, a pleasant hubbub of voices fills the museum’s cafeteria.
午餐时间,博物馆的餐厅里洋溢着一片愉快的嘈杂声。
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